Hands Off: I Can Orgasm With Only My Mind

Getting off is, well, stupendous! Climaxing makes all of the work you've put into it worth the while, but what if you could orgasm without any physical activity? That's where Barbara Carrellas comes in. This woman can have an orgasm by just thinking. She calls it a "think off," and has also characterized it as a "breath and energy orgasm." Intrigued? Well thanks to Salon, we've got the juicy details on how this woman can orgasm with only her mind. Keep reading to find out more about the "think off" and how you could incorporate it into your own sex life.Are you going to try to "think off" tonight? Let us know in the comments section below.

Barbara Carrellas. Carrellas is a New York-based sex coach and the author of "Ecstasy Is Necessary: A Practical Guide." At 59 years old, she's mastered "think off."

Salon. Writer Tracy Clark-Flory met up with Carrellas to attempt the "think off" process and hopefully orgasm through only her mind. Her piece in Salon detailed this experience.

Perineum. Carrellas coached Clark-Flory in this process by "telling me to imagine that each inhale brought red-hot molten energy from the center of the earth into my root chakra — a space in between the legs also known as the perineum."

Squeeze the P.C. muscle. She explained that squeezing the P.C. muscle would help "at pulling that energy up." The P.C. Muscle, according to Clark-Flory, is targeted in Kegel exercises and "much G-spot speculation."

Exercise. This "think off" is a fully clothed and with no direct genital stimulation exercise that allows one to have a "breath and energy orgasm."

Stomach. After working that perineum within her mind, it was time to move on to the next chakra: the stomach. With this, Carrellas informed Clark-Flory to rock her hips up and back, matching her own breathing.

"Striptease." "It probably looked something like a floor routine in 'Striptease,' but I was bizarrely unself-conscious about it. I’d already begun to feel tingly and warm, and I was determined to see where it could go," the journalist said.

Chakras. Like the two mentioned before, these chakras are the focus of the exercise as it moves along. It ends at the head.

Turning yourself on. "You’re turning yourself on in a molecular sense,” Carrellas said, telling Clark-Flory to make more noise. “It can be a sexy sound, it can be a power sound.”

"Think off." "Before long, she instructed me to take 'fuller, faster breaths.' My lips were dry, my mouth tight and vomiting seemed a distinct possibility. I began to notice that my hands were tingly."

"Think off." "My three outer fingers felt curled tight, like I was involuntarily pointing. I focused on my electric pinky and tried to move it slightly, just to be sure that I could. As far as I could tell, I couldn’t. I briefly worried that, oh my god, I was losing control of my body and what if I had a seizure — or died?"

This is all just the build-up, by the way. Clark-Flory admitted, "the sensation was remarkable and unlike anything I’ve ever felt."

The last bit. "No expectations. Exactly the right thing will happen in exactly the right time-space continuum,” Carrellas said. “When you’re ready, let go.”

O. "I immediately exhaled and saw a flash of yellow," the writer described. "My fingers impossibly felt like they had become even more rigid. They seemed rooted to the floor, a part of the earth. I wondered, in a detached, uncaring way, if I’d ever be able to move them again."

Outcome. Clark-Flory had a unique experience that, when she told her friends about it, could only be described as hyperventilating. It even included some of the symptoms. But she exclaimed, "If it is, it’s the good kind."