Men And Women Open Up About The Things That Never Fail To Turn Them On

When it comes to getting intimate with your partner, foreplay is one of the most important parts of intimacy. This can involve oral sex, hand play, or even sexy massages. But for some people, getting turned on can be as easy as seeing your girlfriend put her hair in a pony tail or watching your man get out of the shower. We all have our different kinks, and here 15 men and women took to Reddit to share some of the things that never fail to turn them on.

User Pink_Flash. "When he comes out of the shower. Either in some clingy boxer briefs or just a towel, plus that freshly clean smell. Ugh."

User emilyllewellyn. "Light touching. I don't know what it is, but if someone's fingertips graze along my neck, face, collarbone, thigh, arms, wherever really in a mindless, innocent way, it's incredibly intimate and sexy for me. Almost like they're trying to memorize me with their fingertips. Without fail it's immediately a turn on."

User IL_girl_in_MO. "During foreplay when my boyfriend puts his hands inside my clothes to caress me rather than get me completely naked it drives me crazy."

Anonymous user. "When a guy is wearing thin sweatpants or shorts and grabs his shaft through them so you can just see the outline... Lawd have mercy."

User zenova360. "Getting touched or kissed on the side of my neck. Every time. Going to the hairdresser is.... interesting."

User AllHailGoomy. "My bf will lightly kiss and bite my neck and ears if we're in public at a movie or whatever because he knows it drives me insane and pisses me off because it turns me on but I can't do anything about it. So that by the time we get home I'm ready to ravage him like an animal."

User TheOrdinaryExtra. "The "I want you" text. Always happens to be while I'm at work with about six hours to go. Also, seeing her right after she gets out of the shower. Instant "let's ruin that clean feeling” vibe."

User dirty_pipes. "When she discreetly tries to rub up against my bulge when nobody else is looking. Something about knowing how badly she wants to feel me."

User Kalaan . "the idea of a guy holding my wrists together above my head as he pushes me backwards and we start to make out. never experienced it but one day maybe."

User 0xD153A53. "An ear nibble. Not sure the anatomy behind it, but it's a direct connection to the erection. Relatedly, it might have something to do with my attraction for ears and teeth…"

User Derock85z. "Seam backs and heels. Done. Some of the girls in my office wear stockings on occasion, it's torture. One of them wears the right shade of red lipstick.... hnng. Fu**ing done . The wife is more than happy to put those on for me, so it all works out OK but there is a crisis every so often at work."

User Aljenks. "I love men in glasses, especially when they sit a little lower on the bridge of the nose and they tilt their head and look over them at you. swoosh."

User CrystalSplice. "When I can feel a woman have an orgasm while my fingers are inside her. It's like the deepest, most satisfying connection."

User TheColossalTitan. "Neck bites, and her feeling my back. Oh my god, when she uses her nails. Also, oddly enough, giving her a back massage really turns me on."

User Captain_Auburn_Beard. "Being able to talk s**t and hate on each other. There's this girl at work right now, and at some point during the day we just start being overly mean to the other person, to the point that's it's obviously more playful than hurtful. It gets to the point where were in the break room being so rude to each other in front of coworkers, I just want to throw her on the table and go to town without a care who's watching. God damn her "I don't give a s**t about you" smirk is so sexy."

Study Finds That People Are Sexually Experimenting At Younger Ages

Parents, lock your daughters in their bedrooms.  Ground your sons.  Keep them under constant surveillance.  I'm talking about 8pm curfews.  Why?  Because teens are having sex.  And not just the way. Somehow, America's youth has learned about the sinful pleasures of things like oral and (gasp!) anal sex.  Who told them?! How do we stop this?  What is happening?  Teenagers, you stop it, and you stop it this instant!  You're not supposed to have oral sex until you're at least 30.

What are your thoughts on the matter? Sound off in the comments section! 

Naughty kids. A recent study was done on sexual health and it's bad news all around. Heterosexual teen couples are not only having sex, but they're experimenting. That's right. They're doing butt stuff.

Butt stuff. No, our generation didn't invent butt stuff. I think it was probably the ancient Greeks, or maybe it was the Romans? Either way, it's been around since at least the 70s.

However... The fact of the matter is, teens are doing butt stuff at a much younger age than generations before them. So uh, what gives? Is this a Millennial thing?

Less of a stigma. Anal sex has always been a tricky topic. Yes, of course it's something that gay couples enjoy. Evidently, it took straight people a little while to catch on.

Virginity. Teens aren't losing their virginities younger than previous generations, interestingly. So, maybe they just like to change things up. Who knows?

Oral sex. And why on Earth are younger and younger teens having oral sex? Actually, this one kind of makes sense. Oral sex is slightly safer, in terms of pregnancy, than having intercourse.

Sexual myths. There are still quite a few sexual myths floating around. For example, you can't get pregnant if you have sex standing up (false). You can't get pregnant if you have sex in a swimming pool (false). You can't get pregnant if you have sex WITH a swimming pool (true).

When do teens get naughty? In the US, teenage guys typically lose their virginity at 16, and for girls, 17. And for the members of the chess team...23. Sorry, chess team.

Catholic virgins. There is also the bizarre concept of Catholic virgins. That's where you do everything but engage in vaginal intercourse. So, oral? Totally cool. Butt stuff? Totally fine, as far as Jesus is concerned.

Sweden. Reportedly, teens in Sweden lose their virginity at around 13. That seems awfully young. Maybe it's all that IKEA furniture or something.

Sex before marriage. What percentage of teens have sex before marriage? Pssht, good luck getting an accurate answer on that one. Most teen guys claim to be worldly lovers by age 17, so...

Sexually transmitted diseases. For a while, sexually transmitted diseases were on the rise among teens. Infection rates appear to have slowed, which is great. No joking about this - please continue to practice safe sex.

Teen pregnancy. Teen pregnancy rates are also down, based on national averages. Good job, guys! You must be having sex in swimming pools! Just kidding.

Planned Parenthood. Planned Parenthood is a great resource for teen girls. If you have questions about birth control, safe sex, or anything else that has to do with your sexual health, they will help you out. You don't need an adult to accompany you, which makes it a lot easier for girls to make much needed appointments.

Knock it off, you two! So, in conclusion, teens seem to be getting a little more sexually adventurous. And, as long as they're safe, there's nothing wrong with that. Have fun, guys, just be good to each other, and follow all the rules when it comes to consent. Respect your partner. And never, ever sexually exploit someone else. It will come back and bite you in the ass real hard.

Secrets To Teach Your Partner Which Will Ensure A Happy Vagina During And After Oral

Fellas, when it comes to going down on your partner, mastering the basics is easy. Lick. Rub. Flick. And repeat. , Gigi Engle spoke to Alex Fine, co-founder of sex toy line Dame Products, in order to find out what tricks and secrets men can incorporate into their sexual repertoire next time they eat their partner out for a more mind-blowing orgasm. Without further ado, here’s what she had to say.

Hinting. Rather than dive into the vagina tongue-first, merely tease the area — namely, the clitoris. In other words, instead of pleasuring your lady non-stop with consistent C-spot stimulation, gently lick the area with brief, light brushes. Whatever you do, don’t hone in on the clitoris just yet. Be patient, fellas.

Hinting. "Instead of constant contact, try courting the clit with brief bouts of light touch and gentle pressure, taking breaks in between, hinting at something more to come,” Fine told Engle. "This technique helps to add a bit of suspense and keep you from rushing too quickly into the main act.” Talk about sexy anticipation!

Hinting. While this form of teasing might seem like torture, women like it — a lot. In fact, as Bustle reports, 70 percent of women confess to practicing the playful technique. Why? Mainly because it leads to way, way stronger orgasms. Yes, please.

Layering. What’s layering, you say? Simply put, layering means incorporating a barrier between your fingers/tongue and your partner’s vagina. Not only does is this technique a fantastic way to build those feel-good sensations at a slow, steady pace, it’s also wildly seductive. It’s like you’re right there… but not.

Layering. "The technique involves placing something in between your fingers and her clitoris, creating a slow build," Fine explained to Engle. "Layering allows for a warm-up period. You can layer using fabric, clothing, or even the vulva's natural folds: anything that creates a separation between the clitoris to mute the impact of the direct touch.” Like we said: wildly seductive.

Layering. However, before you try this out with your lady, make sure she’s up for it. While it’s definitely not a technique that’ll cause any discomfort or pain to her precious box, it might be something she simply doesn’t enjoy. Not every gal wants minimal stimulation, after all.

Tapping. If your partner prefers a more direct approach for stimulation, opt for tapping. As you might have guessed, it’s much different than just simply rubbing the clitoris or vulva. It requires patience and, most importantly, rhythm.

Tapping. Fine detailed the technique to Engle, stating: "Try tapping directly on the clit. Gauge her reaction as you work through different patterns, from slow and rhythmic to slightly faster, depending upon what she's responding to more favorably.” In other words, once you start tapping pay attention to her body language — this way, you’ll know if what you're doing is working.

Tapping. If she’s moaning, writhing her hips, or tugging at your hair, continue what you’re doing. If not switch things up. Whatever you do, however, just make sure you’re not thumping on her C-spot too hard. Stick to a light, gentle tap that gradually intensifies — or not. It’s really up to her, you know?

Grounding. No, this technique doesn’t have anything to with punishing a teenager, or sending them off into a corner so they can think about what they’ve done. Rather, grounding is all about finishing off your lady’s orgasm in a complete sort of way. The male equivalent? When she milks you for the last drop of your juice, so to speak. You get the idea.

Grounding. So, what do you do? Take one hand — preferably your dominant one — and place it on her vagina, making sure you cover everything. Then, take your other hand and place it on her pubic bone. Interlock your fingers and apply firm pressure with both hands, pushing down on the pubic bone and pushing up on her vagina

Grounding. "Try broad, firm-but-gentle pressing with a palm or several fingers to make the whole vulva feel great. It gives your partner something to grind against if they're enjoying it,” Fine told Engle. "This can be an especially nice sensation right after an orgasm… and right before another one.” Make sure she lets you know how firm she wants it, as she might want to grind on your hand or just sit still and enjoy the pressure until she reaches climax.