Just Like That: Women Confess The Best Ways To Make Them Orgasm

For women, getting an orgasm isn’t as easy as it is for men, especially during sex. Because of this, a lot of women are victims of the “orgasm gap”, which says that for every three men that orgasm, only one woman does. But nowadays, women are beginning to take a hold of their sexuality and making sure they’re putting themselves first. Here, 15 women on Reddit share what positions make them orgasm the most during sex. Fellas, listen up!

Doggy style. "Doggy-style for sure. Especially if he's grabbing my hips hard and f****** me like I'm just there for him to use. On the other end of the spectrum, when we're having nice, slow, missionary sex and he's close, he'll stop and just hold me while he calms down. It's incredibly intimate and sweet. I love feeling that connected,” says Reddit user powerthrowaway .

On top. "Usually when the guy tells me he's going to cum. I recently learned how to cum on top, so that's cool. Otherwise the best position is on my back with my legs on his shoulders, or face down a** up. After years of being a silent submissive, I am now comfortable taking control of sex just enough to let him know exactly how to work me. That empowerment in and of itself is hot,” says Reddit user CrustyDiamond.

Stimulation. "I always need some sort of clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Sometimes its easier and sometimes its hardier. Being in the right mood and having plenty of warm up time always helps. Or sometimes I am just so f****** horny that I can come much easier then I usually would. Sometimes I have orgasmed just from rubbing my clit on my partner's hard c***. For me what gets me closer every time is hearing how horny my partner is. Hearing him moan really helps,” says Reddit user lefluffybunnies.

Legs up. "Being on my back with my legs up by my shoulders, and being f***** in the a**. It's especially hot when I finger myself at the same time and I can feel his c*** moving in and out of my a** through my vagina. I cum very, very fast this way,” says Reddit user redpens.

Foreplay. "I need mine to tell me what to do. It is ALL about the foreplay. Intercourse is for the man. Everything else (mind trips, spanking, ropes, dirty talk) is all for me. I want to have absolutely no control of the situation. Even then, it's still difficult for me to orgasm without stimulating myself,” says an anonymous Reddit user.

Kegels. ”Laying on stomach with my legs squeezed shut while he rides me like a mechanical bull--I do kegels, he hits me deep and fast and when I cum I just writhe around under him,” says Reddit user staplerinjelle.

Slowly. "I love Doggy-style, and although I am a girl who does like it rough, it feels sooo good to have him slide in and out of me slowly. This plus touching myself or having him reach around and start touching me is the recipe for an amazing, long lasting orgasm. I also really like it when I'm on top, and then all of the sudden he starts thrusting. It's surprising, and it feels really good,” says Reddit user poeticgirl23.

Oral. "I usually orgasm from oral, clitoral stimulation. The few times I've cum while my SO was currently inside of me, we were both laying on our sides (think ‘ pooning') and he was touching my clit with his fingers. I find most pleasure out of the previously mentioned position, and also Doggy-Style -- it just hits me the right way. We did reverse cowgirl once -- that was pretty much awesome -- but generally I need some sort of clitoral stimulation to achieve actual orgasm,” says Reddit user solaritybusk.

Grinding. "I can always make myself cum on top the same way OP does, and that was how I got my start of cumming during sex. I usually end up grinding so hard I make the bed move but it's worth it. Theres not a specific position but anything anal. If I'm having trouble cumming, anywhere from a finger on my a** to the whole c*** in it will make me cum harder then anything else,” says Reddit user Bitchlikeshorses.

Tummy. "Me laying on my tummy with my a** a little high and him laying on top of me, and then me pushing back into him. Usually I'm fairly dominant, but this s*** gets me off every time,” says Reddit user oysterinhabitant.

Vaginal sex. "I've found that I can achieve a g-spot orgasm from vaginal penetration alone pretty much every time through missionary position, but I squeeze my legs together (with my partner's legs on the outside),” says Reddit user selfishstars.

Movement. "Being on top, but going very slowly, grinding downward and moving forward and backwards more than up and down (as the OP stated). Quick/hard up and down movement feels good, but also like running in a circle, I'll lap the other runners on the track but never actually get off,” says Reddit user Cloberella.

In control. "I always orgasm really hard if my SO starts out in control and just gives me all he has while getting me to the verge of orgasming then switching positions a few times end up on top of him and then BAM orgasm so hard I get so sensitive and start to shake in pleasure,” says Reddit user skinmade2view.

Bottom. "When I'm on bottom, he's on top, and then when we get going he puts his hand lightly on my side an I wrap my legs around his waist. This gets me everytime, and he loves the intimacy it creates,” says Reddit user jenniferdonnell.

Enthusiasm. "Enthusiasm during oral. Normally I'm not a huge fan, but if a guy goes at it like his life depends on it, I'm all his,” says Reddit user engineeringtits.