Insanity is exhibiting the same behavior time and time again, but expecting the results to be different. Do you expect to look thinner or lose weight despite never changing your diet, exercising, or taking care of yourself? That's a perfect example. But how is your sexual sanity? Read on to find out more.
Insanity. The topic of discussion today is sexual insanity. According to Sexual-sanity.com, aptly named, sexual sanity is “living with a healthy experience of our sexual selves: avoiding the extremes of out of control addiction on the one hand, and an over-controlled sexual shutdown (sexual anorexia) on the other.” Basically, it’s about balance, it’s about fulfillment, and it’s about comfort level, all summed up together. So where do you stand?
Insanity. The first sign of sexual insanity is that you and your partner, both or only one of you, make it seem as if sex isn’t that important to you. We cannot pretend that sex isn’t a major component of our relationships, no matter how hard we try. The site explains, “Sex is important, and has been since the beginning of time. In a sex-saturated world, we had better be healthy about our sexual boundaries, or we will fall into destructive habits.”
Insanity. The second sign of sexual insanity is trying to use sex to fill a void that it realistically cannot fill. Sure sex can be a distraction, but it shouldn’t be thought of as one. This technique paints sex in a negative light. According to the publication, “If we are using sex as a coping mechanism rather than a way to express love, we will make things worse instead of better.” Hit the problem head on instead of hiding it with sex.
Insanity. Are you honest with yourself about your sexual desires, the things that turn you on? Ignoring and even repressing your desires can not only be a sign of sexual insanity, but it can have profoundly negative effects on your sex life and your person life. Be honest with yourself about what you’re interested and push yourself to explore things. It will ultimately leave you feeling happier and healthier in the long run.
Insanity. Solitude is something sacred. But it isn’t always the right way to go. Sexual-sanity.com explains, “Nobody likes talking about their sexual struggles. Some people make like to brag about their sexual exploits, but would never want to acknowledge how power-less they are over their impulses.” And this could be you! Be open with yourself and your partner about your sexual problems. An open dialogue will promote change and positivity in your sex life. Don’t steep your bedroom activities in secrecy.
Insanity. Never taking time for ourselves. We don’t have to think of our partners as only sexual beings. We can spend time putting our own sexual satisfaction first, masturbating, exploring our bodies by ourselves. This doesn’t mean you’re a bad person or that you aren’t interested in sex with your partner. It just means that not all sexual exploration has to be done together.
Reddit. We headed over to Reddit to see if people were open and honest about the craziest, weirdest, and most insane sexual encounters they’d ever had! And surprisingly, lots of people had stories to share. Can you remember the most insane sexual experience you’ve ever had? Are you brave enough to share it? These people certainly were!
User AvieLikesThis. “In high school, my then-boyfriend and I decided to sneak off together after school. We'd forgotten condoms, so he did the 'pull out and pray' method. Once we got to the stage where he though he was going to finish, he pulled out, lay back and started masturbating. He slightly misjudged his timing, and was laying there wanking a while. Finally, he was getting close, and he looked down at his penis. He ejaculated up his own nose.”
User RandyRandoRanderson. “One of the weirdest happened after a date. The girl and I knew each other for a while and decided to go on a date once we were both single. The date was horrible, little conversation, interrupted by her friends, and she pulled away when I tried to hold her hand. Then as I'm leaving her apt. after a movie, she asks, ‘aren't you going to kiss me?’ I do and it turns into sex.”
User windwolfone. “I've use yogurt as fake c**, had a girlfriend ask me to fake [sexually assault] her with scissors in the mix... but in terms of my personal experience of it as most weird: the first time I made out with a girl in 6 grade. It was my new girlfriend and her younger sister. Making out with 2 surprisingly knowledgeable girls when you don't know what you're doing is really weird.”
User Ms-Fortune. “Went to a BDSM club a few years ago. There was fire work stuff going on, nude painting, violet wand, and a 'fashion' show. Hugged a furry and saw a senior cross-dressing mistress with her boy-toy leashed behind her. It was wild.”
Anonymous user. “One of my earlier exes was obsessed with MMA and kickboxing. She was normal when she was sober, but after some alcohol, all her inhibitions would disappear entirely. One night, she had too much to drink and she ended up asking me to massage her back. After I finished rubbing her back, I laid face down, expecting one back. Instead, she pulls my pants and boxers cleanly off, then starts spontaneously doing "stuff." It was getting pretty hot...until, suddenly, I hear her yell, "TSA!" and I feel a sharp pain go up my ass and up my back. She'd karate chopped the crack of my ass...I had a bruise there for a week.”
User turkeysub3000. “I had a Cinco De Mayo party that turned into an orgy. I had an apartment in Florence, Italy, when I was studying abroad. My Dutch friend brought two girls over, one of whom he was banging, she was a tough Columbian girl from Queens, and this Half-Italian girl from New Mexico who looked like Shakira. The Columbian girl said to me as we're slamming scotch, ‘Turkeysub3000, we're getting drunk, we're getting naked, and we're getting in a fight!’ Turns out all that happened. So I am dancing with this half-Italian bird and she looks over at the Columbian girl and they just start dropping trou. Girls from my school were all, ‘WTF?’ but sooner than later, everyone's clothes were off and we were all grinding, girls were naked kissing up on each other and crazy stuff started happening. I kiss this girl and she slaps me in the face. So I slap her in the face. Then she slaps me again. I pick her up over my back and carry her back to my bed like a cave man. When I wake up in the morning, the bed is broken and covered in blood. These girls ended up getting in a naked fight in our apartment courtyard, and they bit each other until they bled, and then at some point came back into my bed and took turns getting the D from me.”
You. When it comes to you and your partner, how would you rate your sexual sanity on a scale of 1-10? Are you and your partner open to trying new things, or allowing things to stay stale? Be honest... Let us know your thoughts in the comments section below.
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