You Can Take Control Of Your Life By Taking Control Of Your Orgasms

Owning your sexuality can be a really powerful thing. Sexual autonomy and empowerment can be life changing for a woman, especially because being empowered sexually often leads to being empowered in other ways. Being able to articulate what you want and what you need sexually is a rare skill that many people don’t have, and it’s a skill that you can translate to almost any setting, including in your career. You probably won’t believe it, but the second that you start being proactive about taking control of your sexuality is the moment where you start taking control of your life.While this all sounds great, it's all a lot easier said than done. For many people, taking control of your sexuality is something they’d want to do, but they’re totally at a loss as to how to go about it. However, there’s a lot more to it than simply bringing your sexual partner to sexual bliss in bed. It’s about taking that sexual empowerment and turning it into something you can use outside of the bedroom. Here’s how to take control of your life by taking control of your orgasms and your sexuality, and turning it into something more.

Sexually empowered people are confident in who they are. They are whole in all areas of their life. That’s important, because confidence isn’t something that can be leveraged in a sexual setting, but it’s something that can be used in all aspects of life. More importantly, it should be used in all aspects of life.

Sexually empowered people are go-getters. These are people who know exactly what they want, and have no problem going out there to get it. These are also people who know what they want, and from there, they have no problem going to get it. They’re not going to waste their time being unsure of what they want.

Sexually empowered women in particular know how to use their femininity to their advantage. These women know that they’re not going to get their empowerment by sleeping with a ton of people, even if they find that fun. They get their confidence within themselves, which allows them to use their feminine wiles in any situation.

Sexually empowered people love themselves. You can’t be empowered if you think negative thoughts about yourself. The best thing for you to do is to drop your self hate and reframe your thoughts so you appreciate yourself and start a journey of self love.

Learn how to love your body. Even if you’re not a huge fan of your body, it’s easier to get motivated to take care of it if you’re not thinking so negatively about it all the time. Thinking positively about your body makes you want to treat it well, and more often than not, the things we dislike about our body are actually things that resolve themselves.

Spend time with yourself naked. I don’t mean this in a sexual way, I mean just walking around your house topless or fully nude. Look at yourself in the mirror and take note of what your body looks like, and get comfortable in your own skin. Taking control of your confidence in this area privately does wonders for your confidence publically.

Pamper yourself. Get into some form of exercise that makes you feel really good about yourself. Take the time to eat healthily, but also allow yourself the room to indulge yourself every now and then. Also, take time out to take care of your skin and hair, and maybe splurge on some things sometimes. Put yourself first by taking care of yourself, and you’ll already be on your way.

Figure out what you like sexually. You can’t take control of your life through orgasms without actually having them, guys. Figure out what you like sexually and invest some time into doing that. Also, take the time out to get a vibrator of some sort if you don’t have them, which is really helpful towards making orgasms easier.

Take note to how your body handles pleasure. This goes back to getting to know yourself sexually, but this is more than that. Take note of the subtle differences between how your body handles pleasure coming from different sources. That’s a pretty good tool to figure out what you like sexually and be able to communicate that to someone else.

Don’t worry about what other people think. Sexually empowered people don’t really care about what other people think of them. They will most definitely not let anyone influence their decision making for any reason. That’s something we really need to learn how to do, and the more we do it, the happier we’ll be.

Understand that your life is yours. This means that you live with the choices that you make and you confidently own how you live your life. As long as you’re fully informed about the consequences of your decisions, whatever you decide to do in any situation is entirely your own business.

Know what you deserve. Empowered people know that they deserve the best. They deserve respect in their relationships, respect in general, good careers, and the best sex they can possibly have. These are things that you deserve as well, but it’s important for you to know that.

This might require that you make some big decisions. If you’re in a relationship when your partner is treating you like an option, move on from that relationship. If you feel you’re being steamrollered in your career and personal life, stand up for yourself. Make sure you’re always putting yourself first.

Take time into your appearance. You don’t have to wear makeup if you don’t want to, but take pride in how you present yourself. Take note of your body and dress yourself in ways that highlight the features you love about it. The more you do that, the more confident you’ll feel in your clothes and your own skin. Accompany this by walking tall and with confidence, and you’ll be drawing attention to your inner confidence, and people will be drawn to that.

Sexual empowerment is really important. These simple tools to find your sexual confidence can feel kind of overwhelming, but they’re things that have a really high reward. Operating from a place of sexual empowerment actually puts you in a better mindset to be confident in all other areas of your life.