These Expert-Approved Tips Will Guarantee Your Man Gets You Off Every Time

Everyone loves to talk about ways to get a man off, but when people are constantly focused on the man’s orgasm, the woman’s orgasm tends to get a little lost in the mix. If you’re like most guys, you’re probably going to do your best to get your female sexual partner to orgasm, but if you were honest, you’d admit that sometimes, you don’t always know how to make that orgasm happen for her. It’s okay not to know, but it’s also important that you find out what works for the woman you’re having sex with and work within that to make sure she’s having orgasms that are as good as the ones you’re having. Luckily, expert Dorian Solot, sex educator and co-author of "I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide," had a lot to say on the subject. With the help of Solot’s book, we’ve come up with some foolproof tips to get a woman off that work every time. Some of these come from positions that have stood the test of time, but if you’re looking to be a bit more adventurous, we’ve got tips for that too. Here are just a few expert tips to guarantee that you get your woman off every single time.

Missionary. Women tend to get the most pleasure out of this one, to the point that for a woman, this is most likely her favorite position. Make sure you’re entering her at the right angle instead of just going straight on, because entering diagonally allows for more friction for clitoral stimulation, which is what women most often get off on.

Reverse cowgirl. This is a position that allows for access to the clitoris, which is good news for the woman in your life. This is actually the position that will result in the easiest orgasm for the woman specifically for that reason. If you’re in this position, focus on the clitoris and let her control the speed of penetration.

Doggie style. This is great for women because it allows her to have a sense of control over what’s happening, and is able to adjust herself for the best possible angle. As a man, you can stimulate her G-spot while stimulating the clitoris with your hand or with a toy like a vibrator. That’s a good way to get her to a blended orgasm, which is a pretty rare one to have.

Girl on top. While this position will give the woman the most control, this is a team effort. As much as you don’t want anyone star fishing on you, you shouldn’t starfish on anyone else.

Spooning. This is a good position to work with if the woman in your life dislikes deep penetration, or if you’re just in the mood for morning sex. This also works out quite nicely because spooning concentrates most of the stimulation on the front of the vagina, which is where the nerves are. This also makes for a tighter fit.

The crisscross position. You might not have heard of this position, but it’s not that hard to do. Both of you are lying down, with the woman on her back and the man on his side. The woman drapes her legs over the man so they’re forming an X with their bodies. This allows for a different angle of penetration and freedom for clitoral stimulation.

Coital alignment. This position was created by a psychotherapist named Edward Eichel, and it’s considered by a lot of people to be the best sex position in the world. You start off by getting into a missionary position, but resting your whole body weight on her so the base of your penis is right up against her clitoris. Evidently, this position allows for the closest physical and emotional connection, so if you’re looking for something new, this might be it.

Pull her ankles up. One thing you can try during missionary is to raise the woman’s ankles over your shoulders, which will allow for much deeper contact. The same deepness can be achieved by her bending her knees or placing your feet flat against your chest

Have her kneel down on top of you. This positioning puts her on top of you, and because she’ll be kneeling, she’ll have a lot more control over penetration in this way. This allows her to go at her own pace a lot more than most other positions.

The edge of the bed. This is another pay of positioning that allows for much deeper penetration. The woman needs to lie down with her hips of the edge of the bed, and you penetrate her from under her legs. However, this can be a weird position because it’s kind of hard to get comfortable at first. On the other hand, this allows the woman to be able to see what’s going on.

The bridge. This is another modification of the missionary position, where the woman needs to arch her back to meet your penis, while you sit up with your knees spread wide. This works for her because this allows for deep penetration, but I’d suggest putting pillows under her back so this positioning doesn’t get uncomfortable.

Belly down. This puts the woman under you, lying face down, while you lie down or hover over her and enter from behind. This is another position where pills to keep things more comfortable would not be a bad idea. This position stimulates the woman’s G-spot and has the added benefit of giving you a really tight fit.

Bending at the waist. For this position, the woman needs to stand and bend over at the waist, and support herself on something sturdy, while the man enters her from behind. This works in your favor too, since it’ll be easy to enter her, and there will be that much more friction for you. This also allows for access to the clitoris, which is what you want when you’re trying to get a woman off.

Upright doggy style. This works well if you have trouble getting to her clitoris during regular doggy style. This works in much the same way, except she’ll be propped up over a headboard or a sofa or something, which gives you a lot more space to work with.

Female orgasms don’t have to be that hard to have. If you’re a man looking for new ways to get a woman off, there’s no need to reinvent the wheel. All you really have to do is think about what the woman you’re having sex with likes, and then work with that.