Best Positions For Your Clitoris

Listen up and listen well because this has been said a million times and somehow people still aren't getting it: To please a woman you must – – give the clitoris proper attention. Most women can only orgasm through external pleasure, or at least with the help of external pleasure. Just sticking it in doesn't work. However, there are fortunately some sex positions that are optimal for stimulating the clitoris. So, if you want to go for internal and external stimulation at the same time (which is advised) then pay attention.

Sideways 69. Oral is a great way to give special attention to the clitoris. If you lay on your side like this instead of laying on your back like you would regularly do for 69, you can create more friction, more closeness, and more pleasure.

Edges. If you have sex on the edge of something, like a bed or a table, it opens you up (literally) to more pleasure. He'll have greater access to your clit and it'll be easier for him to reach from where he's standing.

Grinding. The best positions for your clitoris are going to be the ones that involve a lot of grinding. Consider it like the hands-free version of masturbation. This is a great position for doing just that.

More sideways. For some reason doing your favorite sex positions sideways just seems to make them even better. This one gets you as close as can be and ensures that while he's inside you he's also rubbing right up against you.

Doggy. Doggy is great for a lot of reasons including G-spot stimulation, but it can be good for clit stimulation as well. If your guy can manage it, he can reach a hand underneath you and rub your clitoris while he's inside you.

On the chair. This position has the benefit of putting you in control while at the same time giving you maximum clitoral pleasure. You can do all the riding and grinding you desire from here.

Friction. Like we said before, a little friction can make the clitoris happy. In this position, you've got him inside you at a great angle because his knees are closed, which also provides more pressure against your clit.

Spoons. Spooning is always nice, but spooning while having sex can be even nicer. While he's coming at you from behind, his hand is free to pleasure your clitoris from the front.

Facing spoons. This position is very intimate so it will feel good emotionally as it feels good physically. You are pressed right up against each other so he's got major contact with your clitoris.

Pillows help. It may feel kind of awkward at first to stop everything and grab a pillow, but you'll be thankful that you did. Propping a pillow or two underneath your butt will lift your lower half up into the air more to give him better overall access.

Reverse cowgirl. This position is a longstanding favorite of many. Guys like it because of the view and girls like it because of the fun ride. If you get low enough and start grinding sensually, it could be a great one for your clitoris, too.

Stand up. When the bed gets boring, get up! If you lift up your leg and wrap it around him, you'll supply that friction that is oh-so-satisfying. Just make sure you can keep your balance.

Embrace. This is another version of doing it in the chair, and this position is probably the more sensual and intimate of the two. It's more about the embrace and the emotion than anything, but it's still pleasing to your clitoris.

Lean in. Get him to lean all the way into you when you're doing this position. Not only will it feel so damn good when he goes in deep, but he'll be right up against your clitoris the whole time.

Totally open. With your legs over your head like this, you are totally open to him. Either one of you can start stimulating your clitoris while he's penetrating you. Don't be afraid to take some action yourself!