Hinting. Rather than dive into the vagina tongue-first, merely tease the area — namely, the clitoris. In other words, instead of pleasuring your lady non-stop with consistent C-spot stimulation, gently lick the area with brief, light brushes. Whatever you do, don’t hone in on the clitoris just yet. Be patient, fellas.
Hinting. "Instead of constant contact, try courting the clit with brief bouts of light touch and gentle pressure, taking breaks in between, hinting at something more to come,” Fine told Engle. "This technique helps to add a bit of suspense and keep you from rushing too quickly into the main act.” Talk about sexy anticipation!
Hinting. While this form of teasing might seem like torture, women like it — a lot. In fact, as Bustle reports, 70 percent of women confess to practicing the playful technique. Why? Mainly because it leads to way, way stronger orgasms. Yes, please.
Layering. What’s layering, you say? Simply put, layering means incorporating a barrier between your fingers/tongue and your partner’s vagina. Not only does is this technique a fantastic way to build those feel-good sensations at a slow, steady pace, it’s also wildly seductive. It’s like you’re right there… but not.
Layering. "The technique involves placing something in between your fingers and her clitoris, creating a slow build," Fine explained to Engle. "Layering allows for a warm-up period. You can layer using fabric, clothing, or even the vulva's natural folds: anything that creates a separation between the clitoris to mute the impact of the direct touch.” Like we said: wildly seductive.
Layering. However, before you try this out with your lady, make sure she’s up for it. While it’s definitely not a technique that’ll cause any discomfort or pain to her precious box, it might be something she simply doesn’t enjoy. Not every gal wants minimal stimulation, after all.
Tapping. If your partner prefers a more direct approach for stimulation, opt for tapping. As you might have guessed, it’s much different than just simply rubbing the clitoris or vulva. It requires patience and, most importantly, rhythm.
Tapping. Fine detailed the technique to Engle, stating: "Try tapping directly on the clit. Gauge her reaction as you work through different patterns, from slow and rhythmic to slightly faster, depending upon what she's responding to more favorably.” In other words, once you start tapping pay attention to her body language — this way, you’ll know if what you're doing is working.
Tapping. If she’s moaning, writhing her hips, or tugging at your hair, continue what you’re doing. If not switch things up. Whatever you do, however, just make sure you’re not thumping on her C-spot too hard. Stick to a light, gentle tap that gradually intensifies — or not. It’s really up to her, you know?
Grounding. No, this technique doesn’t have anything to with punishing a teenager, or sending them off into a corner so they can think about what they’ve done. Rather, grounding is all about finishing off your lady’s orgasm in a complete sort of way. The male equivalent? When she milks you for the last drop of your juice, so to speak. You get the idea.
Grounding. So, what do you do? Take one hand — preferably your dominant one — and place it on her vagina, making sure you cover everything. Then, take your other hand and place it on her pubic bone. Interlock your fingers and apply firm pressure with both hands, pushing down on the pubic bone and pushing up on her vagina
Grounding. "Try broad, firm-but-gentle pressing with a palm or several fingers to make the whole vulva feel great. It gives your partner something to grind against if they're enjoying it,” Fine told Engle. "This can be an especially nice sensation right after an orgasm… and right before another one.” Make sure she lets you know how firm she wants it, as she might want to grind on your hand or just sit still and enjoy the pressure until she reaches climax.
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