Women Who Don’t Orgasm From Penetration Reveal How They Finish During Sex

Can't orgasm from penetration alone? Don't worry, you're not alone. As it turns out, most women can't climax from PIV alone, and as a result, these ladies are turning to alternative methods. Per Reddit, women who don't orgasm from penetration reveal how they "finish" during sex.

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User “RedEyeCodeBlue.” "I have never c*m from penetration alone even though it feels sooooo damn good. However, I get so turned on by penetration that sometimes all I need to do is put pressure on my clit and I'll come. The effort is always made, if not by my bf then by me. I often just ride him and rub my clit. He loves when I do this and I love to c*m multiple times so it's a win win. He also goes down on me or just rubs my clit after he c*ms. We switch it up. But I always c*m one way or another.”

User “Bostonbrunette89.” "I'll second this. I've never c*m from just PIV and I envy women who can! Usually we do a lot of foreplay and then he'll be on top for a while or if I'm particularly horny, I'll blow him and then get on top and rub my clit against his pubic bone. Me riding him usually makes both of us have the best orgasms. Good luck :)”

User “Shewhogoesthere.” "Almost never. I think the guys make a lot of effort, it seems to be an ego thing, to make your partner have an orgasm is more about an accomplishment of their sexual skills than about actually giving pleasure...so it becomes very difficult to explain that it just doesn't happen. I really struggle to orgasm with any partner, ever, even though its not too difficult to achieve on my own.”

User “groovychic1791.” "Same here. He can get me occasionally, but it usually ends with manually either him or I getting me off. Which is ok. Most of the time it doesn't bother me. Sometimes I get frustrated because if we did something different, I could probably get off!”

User “yasexythangyou.” "I've come DURING penetration, but never because of it. And the only times have been a) after talking with my boyfriend for the first time about wanting to get married (that emotional horniness, damn) or b) when sex was accompanied by an external vibration (my vibrator, his cock ring, etc). Other than that, penetration doesn't get me there. Never has, as long as I've masturbated or had sexual relationships. As for effort being made, he will always put in the time and attempt with oral, vibrators, his hands, etc. But honestly, I don't always want to come. Penetration from him still feels wonderful and a lot of times I just want that part of it, especially if I've come in the past day or two already. Otherwise it can take a while and I get kind of a 'pressure to perform’.”

User “callmemeaty.” "We use oral, fingers, hands/vibrator during penetration. PIV feels amazing, I just need that extra stimulation to finish. And the effort is made every time, unless we're in a big time crunch.”

User “Peppermnt.” "If I c*m during sex it's usually during doggy because I can play with my clit (either with my hand or a vibrator) while he is f*cking me. I've gotten super close with me on top, rubbing my clit on his pubic bone but not quite. While I don't end up c*mming every time we have do PIV, he always makes me c*m either before, after, or both with his hands or mouth."

Anonymous. "I've Never came from penetration alone. I rub my clit during penetration no matter the position. Even in missionary my hand is down there. 90% of the time it's me but sometimes by bf will do it for me. The effort is made every time and usually works. Maybe one out of every twenty times i wont finish.”

User “Dinamoehummer.” "This is me too- I can get my hand on my clit in just about any position so I can orgasm during penetration. I am always the one doing the clit stimulation. It's easier and works great for me."

Anonymous. "i only rarely come from penetration--although i like to do so, it's a little bit tricky. i come from oral, fingers on my clit, or grinding against my partner. the effort is made every time we have penetration--piv gets me hot and bothered so it would be pretty shitty for my partner to not even try to make me come. i'd say that we also have pretty equal sessions of just-for-you sex: sometimes i'll get surprise head in the morning and sometimes my partner will."

Anonymous. "We do missionary. I rub my clit on his stomach/pubic mound by raising my butt/legs in a kind of circular motion. It takes anywhere from 30 seconds to 2 or 3 minutes of the rubbing to come. The effort is almost always made.”

User “Tattooedkitty.” "I love intercourse. I can't get off from it but I love it. Oh so much. The way it usually works out, though, I take longer than he can last. Sometimes, he's gotten off twice before I get mine, all the while rubbing myself or he does it.

What works for me EVERYTIME is during anal. It takes me almost no time at all once he enters me. This is the only way we've gotten off simultaneously as well.”

User “resafishy.” "Coming from penetration alone is hard because there aren't really any nerve endings around the vagina wall. There is the clitoral nerves that some people consider to be the G spot but it's extremely hard to come from that. The best bet is clitoral stimulation.”

User “corriganphoenix.” "I always go down on my SO and rub her clit (quite often at the same time) and/or include G-spot stim with two fingers BEFORE we go anywhere near intercourse. After two/three goes (sometimes she works her clit for me), we switch up and we have sex. Occasionally she'll orgasm from this penetration but only after c*mming the other way first.”

User “corriganphoenix.” "This wasn't always the case- she faked it for a long while at the start of our relationship, but once she had owned up (she was hesitant to tell me that she only ever came through clit stim usually), she taught me how she usually did it, and viola! Satisfaction every time. I guess the ethos here is communication."