Out-of-the-Box Sex Tips That’ll Spice Up Your Orgasms

Craving to amp up your orgasms in the bedroom in a way that's a little less Cosmopolitan and a little more individualized? Crave no more! Men and women have turned to Reddit to share their most unique, out-of-the-box sex tips and... well, let's just say you might want to grab a pen and notebook for these. Read on below for 15 distinct pieces of advice that'll take your climaxes to soaring new heights!

User “PsySquared.” "I don't know if this is a ‘secret' or not, but it's one position that I've found the majority of women enjoy. Simple enough, have the ladyfriend lay on her stomach with her legs together. Then go to pound town from behind her. I believe this angle gives better G-spot stimulation and the legs together increase how tight she is. Another plus to this is how easy it is to pin her down from this position (if you're into that.) That's just what works most consistently for me though."

User “LarryGergich.” "If she likes it really rough you should try slapping her face. You should ask first of course. If she loves it, you can play games with it. For instance as she's really getting into it, closing her eyes, staring off into space, you slap her and tell her to look at you. Then anytime she looks away, breaks eye contact you slap her again. Since she's getting off on being slapped it leads to a nice cycle. She can't help but break eye contact while c*mming, but then each slap sharply brings her back, and turns her on more."

User “zanarkandfayth.” "Depends on how rough she wants to go. I personally love being bitten (arms/wrists, boobs, neck, shoulder), scratched hard everywhere, being manhandled into positions for sex or sucking his d*ck, being hit, being slapped in the face with his d*ck, having him forcefully shove his d*ck in my mouth, him holding my wrists tightly above my head or sometimes tying me up, and being called things like a slut, b*tch, whore, etc. Just always check that these things are okay before incorporating them, and agree beforehand on a safe word."

Anonymous. "I actually got this one from Reddit I'd say a year and a half ago or so. Have a glass of water and ice near wherever you do your business. Hold an ice cube between your teeth and rub it on her nipples, clit, or really about anywhere and she'll go crazy. I use to surprise my ex with it every once in a while to keep it fresh and she LOVED it."

User “MrEdews.” "The way I go down on my gf is that I lick and finger her simultaneously. I start by gently licking her, then moves on by starting to finger as I'm licking her. I use two fingers for this one. When I finger her, I never keep fingers straight . I sort of angle them in such a way so you could say that I'm sorting dragging my fingertops against the 'wall’ (make sure that you do not have sharp nails!). This drives her crazy and c*ms every time!"

Anonymous. "A great technique that I learned from another online source is, if the woman is laying on her stomach or facing away from you you can easily stimulate her G-spot with the pad of your thumb and use your other fingers, if needed or wanted, to stimulate her clitoris or just cup the outside of her mound."

Anonymous. "On a wet spot (a*s/p*ssy or just a bit of flesh you've been sucking on or something) blow alternatingly warm, gentle breath and cool, firmer breath."

User “springloadedgiraffe.” "Guys for ladies: get her in her stomach with her legs between yours. Instead of just pumping in and out, penetrate most of the way and rock your body towards her head and back. This will cause your penis to rub against the front of her vagina, and tease the g-spot in the process. It doesn't really feel the best (with how much pressure I use) for me, but it makes her groan and moan in the best of ways."

User “Tim_Theory.” "Best moves are foreplay moves. I'm a big proponent of ear and neck nibbling, hair stroking, and the whispering of pretty things. A good 'finishing move' I've found is to transition over a few poses until her legs are on my shoulders, then on the same shoulder, meaning that I can use one hand to hold her legs together and the other hand to stimulate her clit.

Also, two fingers on the G-spot during cunnilingus."

User “Lilvixenchica.” "My favorite technique which always makes things a bit more passionate, as I am kissing my partner, I will pull away slightly and let them graze their lips against mine before pulling away again, then press my lips firmly against theirs. I always get a good response from men with that one, it's a little playful and bratty.

My other one is while you are giving head concentrate on what you are doing. If you want to deep throat go slow, if you think you might gag hold position for a moment then slide down if you feel comfortable keep doing this and soon his big c*ck will fill your throat and he will squirm with delight."

Anonymous. "During oral sex slowly move downward to that spot in between a girls anus and her vagina, licking and teasing it and all that. If she seems cool with it, slowly work your way lower toward her a*shole and gauge her reaction. I find that alot of girls really like it when you eat their a*s out (although most would never guess that they'd enjoy it). Also mind you this is assuming she has showered recently. There's alot of girls who will freak out and be self conscious about it if they haven't showered recently."

User “erikaroshin.” "When giving a guy a blowjob, deep throat him. As you're taking him out of your mouth, swirl your tongue around his penis. Then once you get to the head, alternate for a few seconds between sucking and swirling your tongue.

Drives my boyfriend insane. It's made his whole body shake before."