I can only reach an orgasm if my girlfriend vomits while we’re having sex

I am a 24-year-old woman and she is 26. We have been together for five months.

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My girlfriend is going to leave me unless I get professional helpCredit: Getty - Contributor

She is beautiful but the only way I can reach orgasm with her is when she lets me make her physically sick during sex.

She says it is painful and I am turning her into a bulimic but I don’t want to.

It’s just that it really gets me going. She cannot understand and says she can’t take it much longer. She wants me to get psychiatric help and says we have no future if I don’t.

It is a fetish called emetophilia but repeated vomiting is damaging to your girlfriend’s gut health and to her teeth, so you must stop this.

Fetishes tend to be deep-rooted so you will need help – and urgently. But nobody should be forced to do anything sexual that they do not enjoy.

My e-leaflet on Fetish Worries explains more.