You Could Go to Jail for Flirting in the Near Future…

Is Flirting With Women a Felony? It All Depends on Your Address…

Yes, you read that right. You can now go to jail for flirting with a woman…

…if you live in Nottinghamshire, England.

Police in Nottinghamshire recently expanded the definition of a hate crime to include misogyny.

And that means hitting on a woman in Nottinghamshire can result in an arrest and could be punishable by law.

Sound crazy? Let’s back up a bit and get to the bottom of this.

What’s Really Going on Here?

There’s no denying that sexual harassment is a major issue plaguing our society.

But a law that might make you think twice before just hitting on woman…

That’s way over the line!

And here’s the thing: This isn’t something all men have to worry about.

For example…

If Leonardo DiCaprio were to hit on a woman in Nottinghamshire, and she reported him to the police…

The police would probably just laugh in her face.

But the truth is that you probably aren’t a high-status celebrity, so it’s important to understand the bigger issue at hand here:

When you flirt with a woman, it’s important to read her for signs she wants to keep talking to you.

The last thing you want is for your advances to be thought of as a “hate crime.”

After all, your flirting is motivated by your desire to be with that woman…

Not by hatred or prejudice, like a hate crime would be.

So when does an innocent gesture turn into a hellish hate crime in a place like Nottinghamshire (and other places that are enacting these types of laws)?

When she doesn’t want it.

I know, seems ridiculous, right? Are you supposed to become some kind of mind reader?

After all, she won’t always tell you when she doesn’t want it — as Glenn has written about time and time again, women aren’t logical.

That’s why it’s so important to be able to read her subtle signals to know if she’s secretly screaming “Go away!” or “Take me now!”

And there are 4 easy ways to do this:

4 Easy Ways to Tell if the Woman You’re Flirting With Wants You Back

1) Listen to What She’s REALLY Saying

Learning to decode a woman’s words is extremely important. And as a woman, I know — we don’t always make it easy!

Women often say one thing and mean another, which can be confusing (not to mention frustrating as hell).

For instance, a woman might compliment you out of politeness, rather than general interest.

How much she’s talking also says a lot about how much she’s into you. If a woman is talking a lot, for example, then she’s interested in you.

So when she is talking, be sure to listen to her. You might learn something that will help you get to that next level.

For instance, if she mentions her dog, she’s telling you about something important to her. So if you mention you also love dogs, she’ll feel even more connected to you!

Women love when you can relate to them.

Women also like to hint at things, rather than directly state them.

So if she asks you what your plans are for the rest of the night, what she’s really asking is if she’ll be involved in them.

And if you want to take her home, you don’t want to blow your shot by missing this huge hint. Speaking of blowing your shot…

2) Look for Red Flags

Of course, not every woman you approach is going to be totally into you.

It’s important to pick up on these key red flags that tell you she isn’t interested so you’ll avoid awkward interactions (and in the case of Nottinghamshire, jail time!).

Here are a few primary red flags that she has no interest in talking to you:

• She avoids eye contact or frequently looks away from you…
• She leans away from you…
• She’s glued to her phone…
• She seems tense or her arms are folded…
• She isn’t talking much or gives short answers…

If a woman won’t look you in the eye and seems to physically pull away from you, she likely isn’t in the mood to be hit on.

Don’t be offended…she might just be having a bad day. But don’t continue trying to flirt with her, either.

Of course, it’s easy to move on if a woman tells you she isn’t interested, but women aren’t always that direct.

She might be so nice to you…

Even if she wants you to go away.

But looking for these key signs won’t just help you avoid being rejected — it will also help you avoid wasting your time on a woman who isn’t interested.

Not only will you avoid a tense situation, but you’ll also be able to move on to women who do want to talk to you.

And when she does want to talk to you, here’s what to look for…

3) Learn to Read Her Body Language

You might like to vocalize everything you’re thinking…

But women sure as hell don’t.

And because of that, it’s important to look at her body language to understand how she really feels about you.

Here are just a few body language signs she’s into you:

• She makes a lot of eye contact…
• She leans in closer to you…
• She brushes her leg or hand against you…
• She smiles a lot…

In general, when a woman is into you, she’ll make long, extended eye contact with you.

She’ll also lean in closer to you when talking, not only to hear you, but also to return your flirtation and show she’s interested.

And if a woman scoots over next to you, brushing her leg or arm against you, it’s always a good sign.

And of course, if she’s smiling, then you know you’re doing something right.

Which brings me to the final step…

4) Respond to Her Advances!

You’ve been listening, you can’t spot any red flags and she’s got good body language…

So what can you do next to turn her interest into her sexual desire for you?

Here’s a hint: It has nothing to do with what you say (and in fact, what you say to her at this point doesn’t even matter)…

That’s because women are up to 10x more sensitive to touch than you are!

So if she’s showing you she’s interested with her body language, you need to touch her in these proven, subtle ways if you want to make her feel something for you:

If she’s leaning into you, for example, try brushing your arm against her arm or her thigh.

And if she brushes her leg against yours, move your leg against hers so they remain touching….

Before you know it, she’ll be thinking about going home with you without you ever mentioning it (and she’ll never know it was your idea in the first place).

But that’s just the tip of the iceberg…

My Crash Course to Get Better With Women FAST

How to Get Better With Women When It’s Unclear Where to Start…

Before I became a successful dating coach, I was just another hopeless guy reaching blindly in the dark for any woman who would have me.

My journey to where I am now wasn’t easy…

But I made it happen. And I started from the very beginning.

The hardest part of any journey in self-improvement is the first step you take: If you feel overwhelmed by what’s to come, then it’s easy to think:

“Where the hell do I even begin?”

The “Secret Guide” My Mentor Passed Down to Me…

When I was a beginner myself, going through this process of learning about women and practicing talking to them, I really threw myself into it.

I’d go out for 8 hours a day, 5 days a week to approach women — like a f—ing full-time job. And since I was doing it so often, my mentor couldn’t always be there to help me.

But as my mentor, he wanted to “be there” even if he couldn’t be there in person. So he showed me his “secret guide” of signals women send when they’re interested in you.

It was like having a coach in my mind telling me what to do every step of the way…

And that made talking to women stress-free and actually fun — even when my mentor wasn’t around!

(I think he was actually disappointed to learn I didn’t need him as much after he gave me this, to be honest.)

Inside the Playboy Lifestyle of a Modern-Day Hugh Hefner

Is the “Playboy Lifestyle” All It’s Cracked Up to Be? Here’s the Surprising Truth…

Imagine being in the best relationship of your life…

She’s sexy…

Adventurous…

Crazy about you…

And happy to do whatever you please.

Sounds pretty perfect, right?

Now imagine having that kind of relationship with 5…10…15 (!) women — what most people today would call an “open” relationship.

For a lot of guys, an “open” relationship is just a far-off fantasy…something most women would NEVER agree too…right?

Not so fast.

Meet Travers Beynon: The “Candyman”…

Travers Beynon is what most guys today are calling the “Modern Day Hugh Hefner.” A tycoon in the tobacco industry, the 44-year-old Australian “Candyman” has been married to his second wife for 7 years…

And he currently has 5 girlfriends. His Instagram is littered with photos of half-naked women lying on top of him…taking extravagant vacations…and generally living “the life.” According to Travers,

Girlfriends and wives are angels, sexual partners are goddesses, party girls are candy girls and ‘sub-misses’ are girls that make the party more interesting with costumes.”

So how does he do it? How does he maintain the lifestyle of a bachelor while staying married?

The bottom line: It’s all about perfecting the art of the “open relationship.”

Is is Possible for “Regular” Guys to Have Open Relationships?

The short answer:

Yes!

The long answer:

It’s possible if you’re able to separate sex from love. Because open relationships are, by definition, more complicated than a standard, one man to one woman relationship…there are a lot of complicated emotions involved.

Consider this scenario:

You’ve been dating a woman for 2 years, and she proposes an open relationship.

“SCORE!” You’re probably thinking. You get to f–k whoever you want…right?

Yes. But…so does the woman you’re dating. You get the benefit of bringing more women to bed — but can you handle the emotional impact of knowing she’s taking other men to bed too?

Most men aren’t sure how to answer this question until they’re actively taking part in an open relationship. And that’s fine, because this is a very difficult question to answer.

But if you know, right now, that the answer is “No,” then chances are you probably can’t handle an open relationship.

Though if you think you can handle it, there are 3 keys to successfully having an open relationship.

And here’s what they are:

1) Be honest about your intentions

Before you jump into an open relationship willy nilly, consider what you really want. Do you want the kind of relationship where:

• You and your partner have sex with whoever you want and don’t tell each other?
• You and your partner have sex with whoever you want, but you have to “approve” of the person first?
• You and your partner just have threesomes together?
• You can be with whomever you want, but your partner can only be with other women?

Clearly, there’s a lot to think about. And on top of that, she might not want the same thing you do. So if you’re going to have a successful open relationship, you’ll probably have to compromise a little.

For example, she might want to “approve” of the new women you bring home, but maybe you don’t want her to see them. Or perhaps she wants to be with other men, but you only want her to be with women, and only while you’re watching.

So if you both arrive at an agreement you’re happy with, you’ve won half the battle. Which brings me to the next step…

2) Communicate, communicate, communicate

The compromising doesn’t end after you agree on the “type” of open relationship you want. It’s important to check in with your partner regularly about both of you are feeling about it.

Maybe you thought you wanted to be with other women, but in reality, it’s less fun than you imagined. Or perhaps she’s getting jealous and doesn’t actually want an open relationship after all. If you or the woman you’re with aren’t happy with the arrangement, then your relationship will inevitably fall apart.

So if you want to avoid that, you have to be as open and honest as possible with her. This is exactly how Travers is able to stay married and maintain a healthy, open relationship with his wife. Not only was he honest about his intentions from the very beginning…

But both he and his wife continue to be honest with each other. No secrets. No lies. As Travers says,

What is funny is that so many men cheat on their wives and girlfriends. I was honest with my wife from Day 1.”

So if an open relationship is something both you and your partner want, nothing is more important than communicating with her on a regular basis. But that’s not the only reason Travers is able to maintain a marriage and have 5 girlfriends at once…

He’s clearly got some skills in the bedroom that keeps these girls coming back for more (and more, and more). What’s his secret?

Just check this out:

3) How to F–K Like a Rockstar: Use This “Playboy Secret”

So I’m talking to this young couple at a bar…”Ashley” and “Jeff.” They were celebrating their 6-year anniversary, so I asked how they kept the spark alive.

“Well…” They looked at each other and smiled…“We like having threesomes with other women.”

OHMYGOD. I had been with plenty of guys (and a few girls)…but never both at once. And I had always secretly wanted to have a threesome…

Like he was reading my mind, Jeff chimes in: “We were wondering if you’d want to maybe come back to our place…and see what happens?”

Back at their place, they offered me some expensive wine and we went to their bedroom. The bed was neatly made with lots of pillows…trendy art hung on the walls…they were clearly well-off.

Thing is, my nerves were distracting me from getting “in the mood”…what if I wasn’t good enough? What if things got “weird”? I had no clue what I was doing…

Then Jeff goes, “Relax. Lie down and close your eyes…let me take it from here.” Ashley kissed my neck while Jeff slid my dress off and moved down toward the foot of the bed…

And then…then…oh my f–king GOD. Whatever he was doing…well, let’s just say I forgot all about my nerves. I wasn’t even embarrassed that I woke up the neighbors…it was that damn good.

Afterward, while Jeff was taking a shower, I asked Ashley, “What Jeff did…does he have a name for it? I’ve never felt anything like that before…”